Welcome

Ryel Kestano

Private Coaching & Training

For individuals, couples, and organizations


I'm one of the world's leading experts on
the practice of authentic relating.

With over 25 years of experience as a teacher, coach, and trainer, I draw upon an extensive knowledge base and deep embodiment of authentic relating and conscious connection in how I’ve designed and run my coaching programs.

I’ve trained thousands of people from all over the world on how to have better relationships with everyone in their lives, from billionaire executives to prison inmates, from teenagers to grandparents, from Bali to New York City. I’ve been completely immersed in the study of this work and its impact on people’s lives for over a decade, and I believe with a passion that it is the most effective practice for better relationships anywhere.

My coaching programs empower clients to immediately and sustainably transform the quality of their relationships everywhere, with everyone – at home, at work, with lifelong partners and old friends, with new acquaintances and first dates. Every session includes practical, specific, customized exercises and assignments that produce clear and obvious results right away, while building a powerful foundation that will last a lifetime.

Our sessions reveal vast and unexplored depths of intimacy, healing, and connection in shared space with other humans, while also revealing shadows, blocks, and unprocessed wounds and fears that might be lurking along the way. The work I do with clients is to guide them to claiming their own wholeness. We walk a path that seeks to find and integrate lost and disconnected parts, while becoming ever more deeply skilled and embodied in the practice of mindful connection and authentic relating.

For this work to be accomplished, no stone can remain unturned – together, we use the illuminating nature of the authentic relating practice to slow down and notice all that is happening in the moment, even though it may sometimes be very uncomfortable. This work requires courage, commitment, and a willingness to truly welcome everything – if these are in place, radical and lasting transformation can occur.


The coaching program is for a 3 month commitment, which can be renewed at the end of each cycle. The program includes live 90 minute calls every two weeks, unlimited text and voice message support, and access to dozens of hours of recorded content. It also includes ongoing assignments and exercises that require time and commitment. Please be prepared to commit to the work of transformation - this is the only way we can facilitate meaningful and lasting change.

Coaching Plan

3 month program

$ 1500
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If you’d like to schedule a free 30 minute call with me to explore a coaching program, please send an email to coaching@ryelkestano.com. Please indicate why you’re interested in working with me and what you’re hoping to accomplish in the program.

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